--- a/.emacs-my	Tue Feb 10 14:34:01 2009 +0200
+++ b/.emacs-my	Wed Feb 11 16:26:09 2009 +0200
@@ -699,6 +699,7 @@
           jabber-use-global-history nil
           jabber-backlog-number 15
           jabber-backlog-days 30
+          jabber-alert-presence-message-function (lambda (who oldstatus newstatus statustext) nil)
           )
   )